Recently, I heard a salesperson announce that he was going to stop selling and instead focus on his customer.
I guess it depends upon your definition of selling, but isn't selling something that does focus on our customers? Perhaps this individual's definition of selling is centered around manipulation, winning at all costs, or taking advantage of the customer. But that's not my definition of selling, and I don't think that's most sales professionals' definition of selling either. The way I sell and the way I teach others to sell in my sales training seminars is all about the prospect and meeting his or her needs. That requires focus on your customer. That's selling, right?
There have been bizarre books published recently, including "Selling Sucks: How to Stop Selling and Start Getting Prospects to Buy."
Really? Selling "sucks?" Yet you want to get your prospects to buy? Isn't that selling? Is this some kind of strange semantics game? Maybe the author's title sells books, but I think anybody who thinks "selling sucks" should get out of the profession and find something else to do 40+ hours per week.
Then there's a recent video that proclaims the biggest myth in selling is selling benefits. Huh? Aren't the benefits of our products and services the reason people buy them? Why else would they buy? Customers don't buy a hammer because they want a hammer; they buy a hammer because they want to pound nails into things. Isn't that a benefit? Is it bad to talk with your prospect (the one who wants a hammer) about how your hammer does it's job well? Why on earth would we not talk about benefits of our products and services with our prospects?
I've heard others (often they are people who are trying to sell books or seminars) say that you shouldn't use open-ended questions, or you shouldn't ask your client buy, or you shouldn't ask for referrals, or you shouldn't create rapport with your prospect.
Really? Is this the state of the sales profession as we enter 2009? Thankfully, it is only fringe elements in our great industry.
Selling is a noble profession. At its best, it's respectful of both the prospect and the salesperson. Selling is not about abusing your prospects, it's about guiding them through a buying process so they can get what they want and desire.
The skills used in selling can be similar to the skills used in clinical psychology, crime investigation, trial law, and journalism interviewing. Can you imagine a new book called "Journalism Sucks?" or "The Mental Health Profession Sucks?" Who would buy these books? (I guess people who don't like their chosen profession?!?). Who would buy a book titled, "Selling Sucks?"
Be proud that you're a sales professional. Develop your professional sales skills. Learn more about selling. And don't let anybody tell you that selling sucks.
Skip Anderson is a professional speaker, sales coach, and the Founder of Selling to Consumers, a B2C and retail sales training and consulting
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